The Psychology of Nice Guys – Why They Are Destined to Fail

While kindness is a virtue, being excessively nice is not. In this video we explore the nice guy syndrome. This syndrome affects many in the modern day. Its symptoms are as follows: putting the needs and expectations of others above our own; a compulsive seeking for social approval; a fear of interpersonal conflict; and a belief that if we can just be nice to everyone, we will create a smooth and happy life. Those afflicted by this syndrome never attain the contentment they believe they deserve. Instead, as we will explore in this video, their niceness leads to their ruin. It impedes their ability to accomplish goals and unfold their potential, prevents them from forming deep and satisfying relationships, and is harmful to their health.